The funny thing about western spirituality compared to eastern spirituality is that western spiritual enlightenment or reaching perfection is something that exists outside. It’s a destination. If you go through all these changes and you take all these steps, you would reach that destination. Now what if your destination is meeting for sex with as many women you can meet with SexMeet.org?
Eastern mysticism and spiritual philosophies, on the other hand, talk about an internal journey; that it’s already within you; that enlightenment is not something that you grasp at and you work for. It’s already within you.
And when you train your mind’s eye to strip away all the attachments that you have to essentially the coverings or the excuses, the justifications, and the lies that cover this truth, you would realize that it’s already within you and it works from within to project out.
I never thought that any of these would have anything to do with free sex meeting websites, until I tried succeeding at such sites only to meet with failure after failure after failure. It doesn’t matter what profile I put up, it doesn’t matter how many messages I send out, none of the shit mattered. Chicks would just basically either not respond, or they would bother to respond and say, "Fuck you, loser! Don’t message me again."
As you can well imagine, this was all so discouraging and even depressing. And then I came across this book on mindfulness and I read this part about focusing on a single object and just emptying your mind. So I was trying to get over my latest rejection at a freesexmeet site, so I focused on this one item that I had available to me, which was, of course, my computer mouse.
So I looked at it, I looked at its details and I stopped thinking. All the thoughts started disappearing because I just focused on what’s in front of me. And that singular focus became stronger and stronger each time I practiced. And little did I know that by simply practicing that, that I am able to figure out what chicks really want when they put together a profile. And I started to figure out the kind of messages that I need to send so I could get a favorable response.
Now, I’m not going to lie to you and say to you that all happened overnight. This took quite some time. But the more successful I got, the faster it was for me to fuck the next chick, and then the next chick after that. Now, I’m just basically drowning in pussy. Whether we’re talking about blondes, brunettes, Russian chicks, American chicks, South American chicks, Asian chicks, it’s just fucking amazing.
This experience taught me that the road to freesexmeet success is ultimately internal. You have to invest in your emotional, spiritual and mental resources. Otherwise, you’re going to run out of steam. Otherwise, you wouldn’t know what to do.
So that’s my advice to you. Stop looking externally, start looking within. You already have the power within.