The funny thing about western spirituality compared to eastern spirituality is that western spiritual enlightenment or reaching perfection is something that exists outside. It’s a destination. If you go through all these changes and you take all these steps, you would reach that destination. Now what if your destination is meeting for sex with as many women you can meet with SexMeet.org?

Eastern mysticism and spiritual philosophies, on the other hand, talk about an internal journey; that it’s already within you; that enlightenment is not something that you grasp at and you work for. It’s already within you.

And when you train your mind’s eye to strip away all the attachments that you have to essentially the coverings or the excuses, the justifications, and the lies that cover this truth, you would realize that it’s already within you and it works from within to project out.

I never thought that any of these would have anything to do with free sex meeting websites, until I tried succeeding at such sites only to meet with failure after failure after failure. It doesn’t matter what profile I put up, it doesn’t matter how many messages I send out, none of the shit mattered. Chicks would just basically either not respond, or they would bother to respond and say, "Fuck you, loser! Don’t message me again."

As you can well imagine, this was all so discouraging and even depressing. And then I came across this book on mindfulness and I read this part about focusing on a single object and just emptying your mind. So I was trying to get over my latest rejection at a freesexmeet site, so I focused on this one item that I had available to me, which was, of course, my computer mouse.

So I looked at it, I looked at its details and I stopped thinking. All the thoughts started disappearing because I just focused on what’s in front of me. And that singular focus became stronger and stronger each time I practiced. And little did I know that by simply practicing that, that I am able to figure out what chicks really want when they put together a profile. And I started to figure out the kind of messages that I need to send so I could get a favorable response.

Now, I’m not going to lie to you and say to you that all happened overnight. This took quite some time. But the more successful I got, the faster it was for me to fuck the next chick, and then the next chick after that. Now, I’m just basically drowning in pussy. Whether we’re talking about blondes, brunettes, Russian chicks, American chicks, South American chicks, Asian chicks, it’s just fucking amazing.

This experience taught me that the road to freesexmeet success is ultimately internal. You have to invest in your emotional, spiritual and mental resources. Otherwise, you’re going to run out of steam. Otherwise, you wouldn’t know what to do.

So that’s my advice to you. Stop looking externally, start looking within. You already have the power within.

It’s easy to think that only a few guys know how to put together a local bang book. I am of course talking about guys with a proverbial little black book. These are the dudes who seem to have the world by the balls. These are the dudes who you think women can’t seem to ignore or turn down. Well, believe me, you can be that guy. You have what it takes.

You have to remember that the big difference between you and the guy who gets pussy all day, every day, is not the fact that that guy looks like Leonardo DiCaprio or has a ton of money. In fact, a lot of guys that I know that have to turn down pussy because they get so much action actually look like pieces of dog shit. In fact dog shit is actually more attractive than many of these guys. It’s not because that these guys are rich either. A lot of them are actually dead-broke and some of them even live in their mom’s basement. So what gives?

Well, if you’re serious about putting together a local bang book then you need to learn from these dudes. It’s not what they look like. It’s not how much money they have in the bank. It has nothing to do with that shit, but it has everything to do with their attitudes.

You have to remember that the guys who hook up online all the time like it’s going out of style assume that the chicks will spread open for them. You have to remember that your mind is the most powerful biochemical machine ever created. If you assume certain things are real, then reality will bend according to your assumptions. This is the one trick that these guys have perfected. This is why they are able to easily compile adult friends list. The good news is, if they can do it, you can too.
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